How to feel good about networking A guide for the socially anxious and compulsively sincere
Do you find networking for your career a bit cringey and uncomfortable?
This article is the cure.
Relationships
Dating, romance, and personal relationships are central to our experience of life. They can also be quite difficult, so are common fodder for conversations in Psychologists’ offices.
The articles below are about, or make mention of, relationships. Read on to find out more.
You’re smarter than you think Embodied intelligence - what your body knows that your brain doesn't
Do you think only with your brain? Or is intelligence an embodied phenomenon?
This article explores the science and subjectivity of perception and interoception – and the profound, untapped wisdom of your body.
Bell’s Theorem Blues If we're all so connected baby, how come I feel so alone? *
An article about loneliness (how it happens, why it matters, and what to do about it) and connection.
It’s also about physics. Sort of.
How to survive working with your family Critical knowledge for thriving in a family business
Working with family can be hard. Dysfunctional dynamics transfer from home to the workplace, making life more stressful than it needs to be and threatening the success of the business. This post is the ultimate guide to understanding what’s up with your sibling relationships and what to do about it.
(HINT: This is really for anyone who has difficulty with their adult brothers or sisters – you don’t have to be working with them.) Read more…
You should just let your anger out (or not) Self-help Hooey topic #2 - myths from pop psychology
If you are prone to angry feelings, which is the better strategy? Let it out, or hold it in?
The answer is neither, because there’s a far superior option. It’s much more effective than that old favourite “You must releeeease your anger” – usually by pummelling a pillow, taking a boxing class, or sealing your doors and windows and yelling at the top of your lungs.
Welcome to the second post in the Self-help Hooey series that myth-busts some of the more damaging beliefs of popular psychology. Read more…
No, you don’t have to ‘love yourself’ before being in a relationship Self-help Hooey topic #1 - myths from pop psychology
I’m not against self-help literature. I’m a shrink, so I’m all for it. There are a few fashionable self-help myths, though, that drive me up the wall because they are not only nonsensical, but it’s actually cruel to lead others to believe in them.
So I’m creating a series of Self-help Hooey posts that expose and put right some of this silliness. I hope to make you feel a whole heap better about yourself along the way, and equip you with much better strategies.
We’re going to start with these two doozies… Read more…